My Girl

So it was the day after the wedding and my girlfriend and I have to drive all the way from Rockford, IL to Collinsville, IL then I had to go to Carbondale, IL all in one day.  It was tiring but it was also a great moment for our relationship.  Phoebe and I were able to talk a lot about ourselves and where we wanna go in life and with each other.  I know her and I have only been together for about a month, but we have had serious discussions, such as what our kids' names would be like, what our wedding would be like, how do we want our future to be.  It is awesome to have these discussions with her because it reinforces my feelings for her.  We see eye to on ALMOST everything.  It was very special to me.


Phoebe is going to school to major in Ministry Studies.  I met her while working at camp this summer.  We had the honor of working together a couple weeks and here and there throughout the other weeks.  I see God in her all the time.  She is one of the nicest people I know, always willing to lend a helping hand.  She loves God so much and is great with the kids.  My favorite thing about her is that I can be myself with her and I mean the good, the bad, and the ugly things about me, she is accepting of it all.  That is truly awesome.  We may have our little disagreements but in the end we know that we care for each other and that we can trust each other to be safe and make smart decisions.

To me it is very important to be in a godly relationship.  All of the arguments some couples have big or small could be avoided if you have a good relationship with each other.  To me, the Bible says that we must get to know our partner in order to truly become one flesh.  My recommendation to everyone is to get to know who you are with on a deep level, only then will you have a relationship that will last through the ages.  Thanks for reading my blog and don't forget to spread the Jesus!

GOD BLESS!